The Silent Scars of War and Disaster: Why Many Survivors Choose Not to Speak

The Invisible Burden: Why Many War and Disaster Survivors Stay Silent

In Japan, the legacy of trauma runs deep. Living in Hiroshima, I have witnessed firsthand how survivors of the atomic bombing often avoid speaking about their experiences. This silence is not unique to Hiroshima or war survivors—it is common among those who have endured extreme trauma worldwide.

For example, many veterans who served in special missions during wartime carry invisible wounds—psychological scars that are not visible on the surface. In a recent video I saw, a former soldier wore casual clothes and seemed like an ordinary man. Yet, subtle tattoos hinted at his military past. His demeanor was subdued, reflecting the heavy emotional burden he carried.

Similarly, in the aftermath of the 2011 Tohoku earthquake and tsunami, many residents of affected areas like Ishinomaki refuse to discuss the disaster. One man, who appeared physically strong and resilient, told me he did not want to talk about those harrowing days. This reluctance to share painful memories is a coping mechanism that transcends cultures and events.

Why do many survivors choose silence? The truth is, some experiences are too intense, too terrifying to put into words. Speaking about them risks reopening wounds or facing social stigma. For some, silence protects their dignity and mental health.

Understanding this silence is crucial, especially for societies that wish to support survivors effectively. Rather than pressuring them to share, we should create safe spaces and offer compassionate support.

If you want to learn more about the silent struggles of war and disaster survivors, keep reading. Their stories, though often unspoken, deserve recognition.